Okay, this is definitely NOT quilt related but I'm extremely disturbed and need some advice.
You may or may not know that we been lucky enough to have had our 3 grandkids stay at our house for the past 5+ yrs, at least every other weekend, sometimes more often (I started out watching them on Fridays); we have bedrooms for them (they are 7, 5 and 3) as well as all the toys etc -- they effectively live here on weekends. We've joked that they go to boarding school during the week and come home on weekends. We have absolutely loved every single minute of the time they are with us!!! We feel very lucky, having always believed it could change any time (the oldest has started playing soccer, for instance, and doesn't come every weekend now).
What has been happening recently is that Emma, the 5 yr old, has been extremely more and more vocal about NOT wanting to leave our house. Just a little bit of background---the 3-1/2 yr old boy is a big whiner (I say that with lots of love...but it's true). He whines about everything.
So Emma, who is no shy violet and not easily manipulated, has always extended her stay with us by days; when they were with us in Oregon, she stayed an extra week. We took her to Hawaii in the spring, which we all loved. She stays until Tuesday on weekends, frequently, before she started back to pre-school. You get the picture. She always asks for more time with us;
Well, the past two or three times she's visited, she's actually said to us that she wants to stay with us FOREVER. That she doesn't want to go back to her house; she cries when we leave our house to bring her back (actually says, "take me back HOME.. [to our house]"). Apparently she cries when she's at her house, wanting to go back to our house. They won't FaceTime me any more because Emma cries and misses me;
So today we took Emma back after the weekend with us and of course she cried in the car and lamented going back. But when she got home, she was crying about leaving our house and my daughter texted me that she thinks we need to eliminate the sleep-overs. I'm on the verge of being devastated. I'm not sure what she's thinking... if we visit instead, I'd imagine Emma would beg to come back home with us etc etc.
I don't know what to do. I said I was very sorry and that we love having the kids.
Has anyone had similar experiences???
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Hope this isn't too heavy for a Sunday afternoon.
anyway, we are heading up to the cabin tomorrow for a week or so away and time with some friends wine tasting up in Walla Walla.
Your thoughts??
xxxxs,
I have sent everyone their mug rug partners so hopefully you've received your "assignment"!! Please let me know if I've sent you the wrong email address. I am hoping this time I didn't make any duplications!!
please mail your mug rug out to your recipient by Oct. 15th... That gives you a month.
Guidelines:
there aren't many.
It should be no smaller than 4" really; no larger than 10"!!
line it with batting;
you can put binding on or turn it and sew the edges down
you should quilt it to hold it in place
sign your name on the back, if there's a place...
Thanks so much for joining in on our swap. I appreciate it! We had participants from Europe, Canada and just about every state! WOOHOO!!
I didn't take pictures of the pillowcases but will do it this weekend.
No grandkids so my dh and I are taking a little day trip tomorrow.
xxxs,
Here is another idea for a mug rug, sent to me by Barbara. Her's is a rectangle and she used a binding. I think they are 4x8 or thereabouts. Aren't they cute? Please check out her blog: http://bbquiltmaker.blogspot.com
I'll be sending out your assignments tomorrow. We had a great response--something like 25 of you! WOOHOO!
I will also post pictures tomorrow of the pillow cases I whipped up to send to Texas. I'm also going to make a couple kennel quilts, thanks to Wendy Reed, who posted the info! No grandkids this weekend so I hope to get some sewing done!
Have I mentioned that I am also reducing my "stash" in my house? Remember I told you about the book I read months ago, "The Hoarder in You"?? Well, I'm still very motivated to get rid of stuff. We've lived in our house 27 yrs and have accumulated a lot! I've been filling bags and going to the Goodwill every day. Today the back of my car was FILLED. You'd never know, looking around the house, though!!! vbg My standard is if I don't want to move it to another home, say, out it goes!
Here's a gentle nudge and reminder to join in on our Mug Rug swap upcoming next month. It's going to be great. EASY PEASY.
Just send me an email, please, with your email address and mailing address:
randyiris@gmail.com
Also, do you follow my dear friend Wendy Reed (constant quilter blog)?? She recently posted information about donating to a guild in Texas that lost everything. I packed up (stuffed, is more like it) one of those flat rate padded envelopes and am sending off lots of fabric and threads (and had a bunch of pre-wound bobbins I hadn't used)... I encourage all of you, if you can, to donate!
I have caught up on my Triangle Gatherings and just need to post you some pictures.
Hope you all had a great weekend!
So many of you last year participated in my pin cushion swap and I think it was a huge success.
So this year I'm going to host something a little different---
We're going to do a mug rug swap!!
Don't know what I mean??
It's a little coaster that's quilted, for drinks! Water; tea; coffee; wine
And you need one by your computer, your bed, your recliner... can never have TOO many!!
They are so EASY. You need a small block (has to be pieced or appliqued) that's not larger than say 5"... you'll need to use some batting and quilt it and BINGO it's done.
I hope you'll be interesting in joining in! You can never have too many mug rugs. And they may take you 10-15 minutes max to whip up...okay, maybe a little longer but NOT too long
Interested?
Please email me by SEPTEMBER 13th (one week away).
We'll have a due date of October 16th... that gives you a month to whip one up.
DON'T DELAY!!
DON'T MISS OUT!!
DON'T BE A BENCH WARMER!!!
;-))
EGAD.
I was looking at the pictures I posted of a few close ups of some blocks and realized you can really see how WONKY my seams are...
Please don't look too closely or judge me for not sewing straight lines!!
Even when I was in 10th grade and took home ec, I remember being berated for not being able to sew straight seams. Some things never change!!
UGH!!!
;-))